VERSES - TAUGHT BY LIFE.

When everything goes wrong at a particular phase of life, is it justified saying………….

“It happened coz it had to happen”

Yes, some where you have nothing else to say when you lose all the words, which were once there to frame sentences. Life becomes really tough and you have to live it, till you are destined to!!

But life is not all about only moving on, some time it’s just to wait and watch, understand the unsaid words, trying to analyze the situation and its conclusion……and finally answering to a valuable question

Why I was choose by the God in millions to suffer this pain….why none else????

Is it was simply destined to, so it happened or do God want to teach me some lessons which I haven’t learnt on this earth till today???

A s said…….

“Someone sometimes meet to be part of your life, Sometimes to be heart of your life.

Everyone has its own role……..

Someone smile for you while, someone smile at you…….

Everything happens here with significance, nothing here is a coincidence!!!”

Everything happening around you, teaches you something valuable to remember forever!!!

As I learnt……………………………..

1. Lies can never be the companion of truth, after all everything have their own identification so is lies, at the end people judge lies on the basis of said identification, no one will ever have the patience to listen why those lies were said as lies!!!

After all it’s also correct, in this world more than “WHY”, “HOW” has its importance, at the end only thing matters is HOW YOU DID IT, rather than WHY YOU DID IT!!!

2. Every relation should be maintained with a distance, limitations has its own importance in this independent world….sometimes it’s better to be a good listener than a mentor.

Advices should be given when you are asked for it, as said every work has its value when you are paid for it, so is it…..everyone has their own space, own view, you shouldn’t change it let how close that person may be to your heart…..distances should be maintained!!!

3. Avoid peoples who show diplomacy in the relation, they can never be anyone’s. It’s good to approach an enemy at your bad times rather than approaching such a friend, who don’t have the dare to speak the truth at your face but have the reasons to back bite you, ignoring the freedom, the love, the position you have given to that person in your life. Today I hate few such people in my life that I have once called angels of my life.

Once I have been said by someone that brought unstopped tears from my eyes, that I never cared for my friends and I should be on their feet to regret…. That time I simply wondered what wrong I did such to hurt them, but today I regret for only one thing why I have shredded my valuable emotions as tears for those who never cared for me!!!

4. Be yourself, be natural. It is far easier than pretending to be someone else!!! Then at least you will be having the best friend of your life at your bad times, in your loneliness to speak out your heart…..that’ s you, yourself!!!

5. Love a heart that loves you, it’s always better to die in the arm of a person who loves you with all your good and bad things, who loves you coz he loves you, who have the courage to say it loud that he loves you….may be in a simple way but making you the most special person of the world and more than everything, of his own life, rather than living a whole life with a person whom your heart loves but he doesn’t have the time and patience to hold your hand nor having any position of yours in his priority list nor in his life!!! Saying I love you in the most beautiful way of the world by that person can’t even make you feel the simple warmth you got in the words said by a heart who loves you, in its simplest way!!

Life is the best teacher, whom everyone should admire coz it teaches you the most valuable things of life!!

I have given my whole one year to repay for the mistakes I made, may be its not enough, once when I had shut all my doors of hearts for others and lived a life a loneliness, I only feared the pain of losing them who loves me if I bring them so close to me, it was my love for them that kept me away from them………. but today when I have again closed the doors which by mistakenly once I opened to free myself , I only fear of one thing can I love anyone anymore in my life????

I m not an optimist still some where my heart believes and see a faded image of happiness…. a hand of caring, love, to again knock the doors and to set me free, to make me kid again!!! But it’s just a dream without any hope coz today I fear the hairiness that my heart holds for everything it passes through!!!